1. Respect ppl decision, don’t say they are wrong
2. When you are wrong, admit it first
3. Bring the purpose to a high purpose
4. Make it more dramatic
5. Make a challenge
6. Avoid argument to win an argument
7. Sympathize people’s wishes and dreams
8. Make them think its their call or decision
9. Give them opportunity to talk
10. Start with a polite way
11. Ensure ppl agree to you faster “yes yes”
12. Sincerely think from other people shoe